Young people are more likely to come to a trusted adult when they feel listened to rather than judged. These conversations work best as an ongoing relationship, not a one-time warning.
Start with listening
Ask what they already know and what they have seen. Listen without reacting. This builds the trust that keeps the door open.
Be honest and accurate
Young people notice exaggeration. Share accurate information and admit what you do not know. Facts respect their intelligence.
Keep the door open
Let them know they can come to you about anything, without fear of being shamed or punished. That safety can matter more than any single fact.
Get support
If you are worried about a young person, Get Help can point you to the right service.